Column Not So Sorry: The Pope, Pets, and Childless CouplesMarch 7, 2022Kaya OakesDo childless people owe the pope forgiveness for calling them selfish?
Column Not So Sorry: Christianity Today’s Sexual Misconduct Problem and the Complications with Forgiving InstitutionsMay 10, 2022Kaya OakesShould we forgive institutions when they admit to years of abuse?
Column Not So Sorry: Whose Sin Is It Anyway? Catholics, Abortion, and What Comes NextJuly 26, 2022Kaya OakesShould Americans forgive the Catholic church for its role in ending Roe?
Column Not So Sorry: The Colonizing Catholic Church, Indigenous Americans, and Problems with ForgivenessNovember 11, 2022Kaya OakesThe church contributed to the abuse and death of countless Indigenous peoples. Could refusing the church's request for forgiveness...
Column Not So Sorry: Fetishizing ForgivenessMarch 7, 2023Kaya OakesExpecting people to forgive in all situations can enable abuse and allow social injustice to continue
Column Not So Sorry: It’s a Beef: How Revenge Movies and TV Shows Help Us CopeJune 13, 2023Kaya OakesRevenge fantasies can help us heal. But do they come with their own dangers?
Column Not So Sorry: What Makes an Apology Worthwhile?September 6, 2023Kaya OakesDo apologies for clergy abuse offered by the Catholic church and Southern Baptist Convention do anything to instill trust?